bigbroyi:参考了一些油管的评论可以更好地理解gaslighting:
Chetz
You forgot to mention the by far most common cases: 'soft' abuse by parents. No curse words are needed, no punches, nothing obvious. A gaslighting parent can easily destroy their children permanently anyway. It's often combined with using their kids as an 'identified patient', 'scapegoat' or 'black sheep', or, it could be in combination with the oidepal mother phenomenon and/or Munchhausen-BP issues (controlling the child and keeping them in a childlike state to care for them).